![]() To be sure, anger is energizing while depression is debilitating, but the outcome, when this anger is actualized is often horrifying and tragic.Įlliot Rodger, a self-identified incel, killed six people, injured fourteen others, and killed himself in 2014 in Isla Vista California. These men live with the unfortunate belief that hate is power. Sometimes women are referred to as cum dumpsters. Others blame genetics on their exclusion.īuzz words that are in common use include: manosphere (the concept of male supremacy ) and black pill (sexist ideology). Some believe it is a conspiracy of Jewish women to weaken the West (whatever that means, other than anti-Semitism). Some of the unconventional beliefs that bind the sufferers together would be funny, if they weren’t dangerous and sad. The sense of sexual entitlement is one of the markers that identifies an incel. Rather than, learning more about themselves in a healthy way, which could do a lot to alleviate the problem, the majority of these men believe that women are intentionally depriving them of their (the men’s) right to engage in sexual intercourse. ![]() As far as is known, the women do not resort to mass murder as a way to dump their shame, resentment and rage. ![]() The trend has been to fan the flames of fear, and thus, animus toward women.Īnd, yes ,there are female incels. This assembly, and others like it, are currently filled with men. It is unclear at which point the group became male-dominated. It’s unfortunate that this path to healing does not appear to have been explored. Basically, Golman, in his book E motional Intelligence says that those who succeed socially are keenly aware of their own emotions and can accurately interpret the emotions of others. It may well have been a good idea to educate those suffering on Daniel Golman’s theory of emotional intelligence. The group is also attractive to people who suffere from mental illness and those who are on the autism spectrum. One can assume that there was a great deal of social awkwardness. It is not uncommon for incels to feel treated as if they were not able to do anything successfully. The only people who were turned away were those who threatened rape or death. “The Involuntary Celibacy Project” was designed to welcome individuals of either gender. Alana was quite courageous - no one was discussing this lifestyle problem at that time.Įventually Alana abandoned the website, discovered she was gay, and, reportedly, entered into an intimate relationship. The idea was to try to find a community of like-minded adults with whom to share ideas, experiences, and collaboration on solving this painfully isolating situation. ![]() The site was constructed so that she could express her feelings of being marginalized. She began a simple, text only, website entitled “The Involuntary Celibacy Project”. Alana, who is from Carleton University in Ottawa, found herself unable to connect with a romantic, or even a friendly, other. The term, which is still unknown to a large part of the population, was actually coined by a woman named Alana (no last name available),in 1993. This discussion is concerned with individuals self-identified, as incels. ![]()
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